It's not uncommon for young players' careers to stall or drift when they get to Isaac Hayden's age. At 18 it is tempting to be distracted by the lure of success, rather than motivated by the work required to achieve it.
Spend a few minutes with the Gunners' versatile centre back/midfielder, though, and any suggestion that he might follow the former path is erased at lightning speed. His rise towards the top has been anything but ordinary, taking in an intensive regimen of drills with his father - a former youth player with Aston Villa - before winding up at Arsenal via the less illustrious surrounds of Southend United.
Seen as captain material by the Academy coaches last season, while still a first-year scholar, the youngster's drive and determination to better himself have marked him out as a genuine first-team prospect of the future - and, as he told us this month, there will be no resting upon his laurels until the day he retires from the game.
"Some days were hard - heâd sometimes get into me, tell me I wasnât good enough. Sometimes youâd come back into the house feeling absolutely knackered and even crying"
âThere was a Sunday League team I wanted to join when I was eight,â remembers Isaac. âBut my dad looked at the coaching setup and said, 'No, thatâs not good enough for you'.â Hayden senior had something else in mind - a personalised school of hard knocks that set Isaac fair for the highs and lows that would come his way in subsequent years.
âFor a whole year - two hours on Saturdays and Sundays, and maybe one week night - he used to work with me one on one. Weâd do different technical drills in the park, dribbling through cones, ball control, everything. Some days were hard - heâd sometimes get into me, tell me I wasnât good enough. Sometimes youâd come back into the house feeling absolutely knackered and even crying. Other times, youâd think you didnât want to go out and train but would end up really enjoying it. It was tough work, but all of that has helped me understand how things work now.â
He suggests that it instilled a mentality in him that gave him a thicker skin than some of his peers. âWhen youâre 13 or 14, you see a coach shouting at his players and their heads go,â he says. âWhen that eventually happened to me, mine would be stable because Iâd already had it from a young age and knew how to handle it.â
His introduction to more structured football was handled carefully - and with plenty of work put in off the pitch, too. âIt got to the stage where dad said heâd let me join a Sunday League team. I played in one game and that was it - Southend said they wanted to sign me. He didnât think I should go there too soon, so I played a season of Sunday football at Under-9 level and began at Southend with the Under-10s.

Isaac in action during the FA Youth Cup
âMy dad bought a tactics board, which we'd use after Iâd played in games. He'd explain positions to me, where you should be at certain times - I think we got through every position on the pitch. We'd watch games together and discuss certain aspects, even when I was eight or nine. Iâd try to take it all in, and I think that's helped me become multi-disciplined in my positions now. I was talked through them all from a young age. I try to bring all these experiences to the table now.â
His years at Southend added an appreciation that not every young player will experience a gold-paved road to the top. âI think that time was pivotal in my development,â he explains. âBecause I'd been at - no disrespect - a smaller club, it helped me to realise how big the opportunity was when I came here and what there was out there for me to achieve. I really enjoyed my time at Southend and have a lot of people to thank there, especially Luke Hobbs and Mark Bonner, my coaches, who really helped me develop in my younger years and gave me that stable base to improve and hopefully become a very good player.
"When a club like Arsenal comes calling you're not going to say no, and I noticed straight away that the quality of player I was surrounded by and the level of competition I was playing in were always going to help me"
âThe facilities werenât great but the team spirit was good and it was a good club. I played at Roots Hall a few times, and enjoyed that a lot. But when a club like Arsenal comes calling you're not going to say no, and I noticed straight away that the quality of player I was surrounded by and the level of competition I was playing in were always going to help me. And thereâs the motivation aspect, too. Coming here from a smaller club makes you think, 'This is where I want to be'. Some players have been here since they were really young and when they get to the age of 16, for example, might not always understand what theyâve got here. Sometimes they leave for a lower-league club. Iâve understood what itâs like to be there, and fully appreciate that you have to make the most of every opportunity.â
His first season as a scholar at London Colney saw him win a first professional contract on his 17th birthday, in March 2012. A far cry from those cones in the park, but a step he was determined to take in his stride. âItâs like a clean slate, really,â he believes. âEvery time Iâve achieved something in football itâs always been a case of 'the slate is clean now' - even when you sign on for two years aged 14 and then when you become a scholar at 16. When the professional contract is done you think, 'OK, Iâve got to this stage so the next level is getting the second pro contract and playing in the first team.' For me, it doesnât end until the day you retire - thatâs the day you say youâve tried your best and can think you've done it. Until then, every season, every week, every day, you're trying to improve as a player and as a person.â

Isaac enjoys the responsibility of being captain
With an outlook like that, itâs little surprise that Isaac was made captain of the under-18 side last term - a status that he has slowly built up to, but now feels quite natural. âIt's funny really, my dad and my coaches always used to say I didnât talk enough,â he laughs. âI did captain an under-12 team in France and we got to the final, but that was the first time ever and it was a surreal experience. I didnât understand really what it meant.
âAfter that, it wasn't really until the later stages of under-16 football at Arsenal that I was given the captaincy again. Since then, I've havenât wanted to give it up and have improved on the leadership qualities needed. Iâve captained the youth team as a first year, which is a good achievement. I havenât captained the under-21s yet, but hopefully next season I might get that chance. I love the feeling of being captain. It doesnât change the way I play, but it gives you a certain mental edge. You know you're the one who needs to take that extra responsibility, to lead by example, do things right and never let the team down.â
"I love the feeling of being captain. It doesnât change the way I play, but it gives you a certain mental edge. You know you're the one who needs to take that extra responsibility, to lead by example, do things right and never let the team down"
Isaac Hayden
Isaac represented three Arsenal teams - both at centre back and in midfield - this season. The set-up of youth football is such that he is eligible for the under-18, under-21 and the NextGen Series (under-19s) side, and he pinpoints the considerable differences between the three.
âWhen I came back this season, I was used to under-18 level so getting back into that was fine,â he explains. âAfter five or six under-21 games I became accustomed to the pace at that level, too. After that, when I dropped back into the under-18s a couple of times before Christmas it felt really different - almost like the pace of a Sunday League game, the gap was that big. The NextGen experience was different again - youâre playing guys roughly your age who are the very best in Europe. You know that every opponent will have really high quality. Getting far in that competition has only helped us, along with playing in the elite group of the Under-21 competition. For a young team, I donât think we have done badly at all.â
Isaac plans to grow up fast next season. He has a clear idea of what the next stage of his development needs to involve, and thatâs regular senior football - whatever the stage. âI'm fully open-minded,â he says. âIf the right club came calling and wanted to take me on loan, I think it would be fantastic to be a first-team footballer at 18 years of age. It would be vital in my development. But if the boss said he wanted me to stay here and be part of the Capital One Cup or anything else, obviously it would be a dream come true to put the Arsenal shirt on for the first team. Itâs just a matter of getting back after the summer and seeing what happens from there. If itâs looking likely that I'll push for a Capital One Cup place then obviously Iâll stay. If not, then a loan will look more likely.
âIâd be comfortable with that. Iâve seen how other guys have done, like Chuks [Aneke], whoâs had a fantastic season and Crewe, and Benik [Afobe], who had made it into the England Under-21 squad before his injury. Even Nathaniel Chalobah, whoâs been brilliant on loan at Watford from Chelsea and is only a little bit older than me. It really opens your eyes to what can be achieved if you go out on loan. If you work hard and earn the right opportunities, itâs all there for you.â
Read the interview with Isaac and more in the latest edition
Does he ever assess the first-team squad and weigh up whether an opportunity at Arsenal might present itself sooner rather than later? âYou always have to look at that, he admits. âWhenever I've been over there, training with the first team, I've always felt comfortable in the surroundings and it highlights my feeling that I need to make the next step now, wherever it may take me.â
If the remarkable focus he has shown so far in his young career is anything to go by, that might be very far indeed.
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